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A Lesson in How to Shake it Off

One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.

He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.

As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!

MORAL :
Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.

Yoga for Your 50’s, 60’s and Beyond!

Surrender is often the hardest spiritual practice.

We have to constantly learn to let go of things, especially as we age. This is as true in yoga as it is in life.

This is certainly something I am thinking about as I have just turned the corner on 60.

I know that I am quite strong and flexible for my age. I am fortunate that I have always been interested in being physically fit and active. That means in some ways it is easier to maintain what I already have achieved. I also started doing yoga in my 20’s when a lot of physical things were easier than they are now. And although I was not very flexible when I started, I became flexible with dedication over time. These two steps of dedication and time are important to a yoga practice no matter the age of the practitioner.

Y.S. 1.14  Sa tu dirgha kala nairantarya satkara adara asevito drdhabhumih
It is only when the correct practice is followed for a long time, without interruptions and with a quality of positive attitude and eagerness, that it can succeed.

My yoga practice was much different when I was younger. I was more interested in the physical workout than the internal one. As you can see by my quoting of the Yoga Sutras, that my interest has shifted, I am still interested in the physical practice, but I am now much more interested in the mental, emotional and spiritual practices. This is a typical pattern followed by many aging yogis before me.

My practice and even my teaching has changed as I have gotten older. Although I started off in the Iyengar tradition, I practiced and taught other forms of yoga that provided more of a workout during my 30’s and 40’s. Perhaps it was age, or maybe it was the slight physical imperfections of scoliosis combined with arthritis and injuries over years of being physically active that have impelled me to look again and return to the therapeutics of an Iyengar practice. I am less and less interested in moving fast through poses and more interested in spending time and finding balance and equanimity in the postures. I am more interested in developing my buddhi, rather than my booty. I am very interested in the benefits and subtleties subtleties of the poses, revisiting them and deepening them over time. Every pose changes over time as your body changes and your understanding, proprioception and ability changes.

I am still interested in a strong yoga practice, one designed to build strength, stamina, flexibility and equanimity. And I believe that it is possible to do so at any age, no matter if you have been doing yoga for many years, or just starting in retirement. The key to a sustainable yoga practice is working with what you have, being dedicated to practicing, keeping curious about what you might be able to do, being patient with your progress and moving step by step.

I'll see you on your mat!

This is what my version of 60 looks like.

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Decade birthdays have always been major milestones for me. I was a teacher in a K-12 school when I turned 30.  All of a sudden the students considered me old.  I shouldn’t have been surprised. I remember a conversation I had with my mother about my kindergarten teacher, Miss Roosevelt.  I thought she was an elderly woman in her 60s.  My mom told me that she was in her 20s!  Age is relative. And it definitely depends on who is doing the aging.

At 40 I had my midlife crisis.  I quit my job, moved out of the house I was literally born in and adopted my son.  I remember feeling not only the biological clock ticking, but also a greater sense of the impermanence of things with my dad passing away a few years prior.

For my 50th birthday I decided that I wanted to do something special for myself.  It was one of those mom fantasies.  My son was ten and as much as I loved him (and still do), I needed some me time.  The  Yoga Journal Conference in San Francisco  happens every year around my birthday and I always wanted to go.  So, I decided that was the year.  While I was there I had my palm read.  The guy was good.  He looked at my hand and without asking me any questions told me that I was a teacher and a scholar (so true) and had been so for many lifetimes.  He also read that I had some major life changes in my 40’s (see above) and that I would have some more in my mid 50’s (my mother!)  He also told me that I would work for my entire lifetime.  Since I apparently have a long life line I guess retirement is not in my near future.  Maybe someday I can shoot for being the world’s oldest yoga teacher!

After my 50th birthday extravaganza, I decided that, for my 60th, I wanted to spend time with my family and friends.  Mitchell and I are taking a trip together and visiting some friends along the way.

Each decade has felt a little like a leap into the unknown and a time for leaving some things behind and taking up other new and different things.  Getting older in our culture is a challenge with so much focus on youth and beauty.  Like others before me, I don’t necessarily feel any older on the inside.  Yes, there are aches and pains at times and I cannot ride my bike as fast or run as fast as people half my age, but I am still out there doing the things I love to do.

I am grateful for my yoga practice all through these years.  I credit yoga with keeping me healthy physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.  My focus in the practice has definitely changed over time.  In the beginning I did it for relaxation.  Then, as the popularity of yoga increased, I got swept up in the physical practice and achieving poses. Although I never felt comfortable with posting poses on Instagram, students do want to know what you are capable of doing physically.  Now, I am more interested in how the physical practice influences my internal world.  I know that strength, balance and flexibility are important as we get older.  But so is contentment, clarity and peace.

As an older yoga teacher I face my own physical limitations of an aging body.  One thing I have had to let go of is that I no longer attract young students who are only in it for the physical practice.   As I move into this next decade of my life, I leap with the guidance of many others who have gone before me, I am holding the hands of those who are moving with me and I hope to light the way for those who come after me.

As I move into this next decade, the physical practice is still important.  Mr. Iyengar taught that when the body is dull, the mind can become dull, So I will continue to practice and explore the poses, but the physical body is only one of the five sheaths of the body.  There is also the energetic sheath of the breath, the mental sheath of the senses, the intellectual sheath of the mind and the blissful sheath of exploring the inner Self.  I hope to keep exploring the many layers of this practice called yoga with you for years to come.

What happens when your body lets you down?

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On my City to Shore MS bike ride this year, I witnessed two events that gave me pause to stop and reflect.

The things you can’t prepare for.
The first was an accident, a lapse of attention. Someone ran into the wheel of the cyclist in front of him and down he went. The guy was scraped up and bruised pretty badly, but nothing broken, on his body anyway. His bike was damaged, but that can be fixed. If we could be mindful and fully present all of the time, these things wouldn’t happen. But, that is easier said than done. I read somewhere that the average person loses their attention an average of six times a minute!

Reflection: Bicycling can be a dangerous sport. It is important to pay attention to your surroundings as you ride. Just like driving, you need to ride defensively.

And the things you can.
The second event, could have been an accident, except that there may have been other contributing factors to a rider who suffered from heat stroke. Was this a condition of this man’s body letting him down? Or was it him not listening to his body? Had he trained for this event, or had he just willed his body to participate in it? Riding 75 to 100 miles is not something you can do on a whim. You need to prepare for it.

Through my work personally training dozens of people over the years, I have heard many times people complain that they can’t do something and they wish that they could. They often feel frustrated and that their body has let them down. Very few people understand how their body works. It seems as if they want their body to perform by imposing their will over it rather than doing what is necessary to have their body function optimally.

Our bodies talk to us all of the time. Unfortunately these messages are non-verbal and you have to know how to interpret them. Often pain, discomfort and unease are the body telling us that something is wrong. The next time your body doesn’t perform the way you want it to, instead of wondering how your body has let you down. Ask how you may have let down your body.

We all know how important the following things are to our health:
Sleep
Food
Hydration
Movement
Relationships
Spirituality
Connection to Community

But there are two questions to ask yourself about these things.  First what is the quantity of each item on the list.  Second is what is the quality?

Reflection: You don’t play the game to stay in shape. You stay in shape to play the game.

Making Choices to be Healthy

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What do you really need to do to be healthy?  Is it the food you eat?  Exercise?  What about your creative health?  Financial health? Spiritual health?  Do you find time to relax or meditate?  I think all of these factors come into play and contribute to your health and sense of well being.  Lissa Rankin, a physician, speaker, founder of the Whole Health Medicine Institute, and mystic depicts your health as a cairn, a human made pile of stones, with each stone representing an aspect of your health.

Medical Intuitive Caroline Myss has spent the last 35 years learning about how people can heal and why they don’t.  In many of her talks, I have heard her say that food and exercise don’t matter as much as the power of the choices we make on a daily basis.  She often says that you can eat cat food and still be healthy provided you are able to live in present time; that you don’t spend your energy rehashing the past and worrying about the future.  Her work centers on where we are losing energy.  Just like a financial debt, if you continue to drain your resources pretty soon you will have nothing left.

This sounds very much in line with the teachings of yoga and mindfulness.  We need to learn to live in the present moment. What does that mean?  Live with integrity.  Pass on your wisdom, not your woe, learn from your mistakes.  Make a choice to take risks.  How many risks have you already taken in your life to get where you are today?  Make a list of them to help you remember. Don’t wait for proof that your actions will turn out successfully, not all of them will.  But, as famous guru Shri Wayne Gretzky-ananda said, “I didn’t make 100% of the shots I didn’t take.”

Don’t look backwards for guidance.  The reason you are where you are is because that part of your life is over.  Look forward to new adventures.  Trust that your resourcefulness that brought you this far will continue to serve you.

Caroline Myss says that we need to pay attention to our words; our words are universes unto themselves.  Each word we use has the power to shape our world.  She teaches that there are toxic words and that these words should be banished from our vocabulary.  Ms. Myss suggests that there are three toxic words that we should banish from our vocabulary: blame, deserve and entitlement.

Blame.  You have probably all heard the expression that no one has the power to ruin our day unless we let them.  We are responsible for our own happiness.  Other people may do things that intersect with our lives, but they are acting upon their own ideas and principles.  If we blame them for our unhappiness we are giving away our own power.

Deserve.  There are a lot of things that happen to us that we don’t deserve, stuff just happens. My mother didn’t deserve to get Alzheimer’s, it just happened. People don’t deserve to win the lottery, it’s just chance.

Entitled.  We really aren’t entitled to anything.  We often just think we should be.

The practice of banishing these words from your vocabulary is very similar to the complaining fast I invited students to go on a while ago.  Think of this as an elimination diet where you eliminate a food from your diet to see if your symptoms go away.  Try giving up one of these words for a day or a week and see if it has an impact on your life.  Just like a food, it may take longer than a day or a week to get it completely out of your system, however, so be patient and give it time.

At the end of her TED talk, Caroline Myss asks us to make this choice to be healthy.  She says, “Make the choice everyday to get up every day and bless your day.  Don’t be grateful for the things you have because these things can change.  Wake up every day and bless the fact that you are alive and things will never be exactly this way again; these people, this situation will never be exactly this way again.  Appreciate the gift of being alive.  If you can wake up this way every day, this shapes your life with grace and beauty."

What choices can you make to live a happier and more fulfilled life?

Overcoming Your Fears

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Medical Intuitive Caroline Myss has spent the last 35 years learning about how people can heal and why they don’t.  In many of her talks, I have heard her say that food and exercise don’t matter as much as the power of the choices we make on a daily basis.  She often says that you can eat cat food and still be healthy provided you are able to live in present time; that you don’t spend your energy rehashing the past and worrying about the future.  Her work centers on where we are losing energy.  Just like a financial debt, if you continue to drain your resources pretty soon you will have nothing left.

This sounds very much in line with the teachings of yoga and mindfulness.  We need to learn to live in the present moment. What does that mean?  Live with integrity.  Pass on your wisdom, not your woe, learn from your mistakes.  Make a choice to take risks.  How many risks have you already taken in your life to get where you are today?  Make a list of them to help you remember. Don’t wait for proof that your actions will turn out successfully, not all of them will.  But, as famous guru Shri Wayne Gretzky-ananda said, “I didn’t make 100% of the shots I didn’t take.”

Don’t look backwards for guidance.  The reason you are where you are is because that part of your life is over.  Look forward to new adventures.  Trust that your resourcefulness that brought you this far will continue to serve you.

Caroline Myss says that we need to pay attention to our words; our words are universes unto themselves.  Each word we use has the power to shape our world.  She teaches that there are toxic words and that these words should be banished from our vocabulary.  Ms. Myss suggests that there are three toxic words that we should banish from our vocabulary: blame, deserve and entitlement.

Blame.  You have probably all heard the expression that no one has the power to ruin our day unless we let them.  We are responsible for our own happiness.  Other people may do things that intersect with our lives, but they are acting upon their own ideas and principles.  If we blame them for our unhappiness we are giving away our own power.

Deserve.  There are a lot of things that happen to us that we don’t deserve, stuff just happens. My mother didn’t deserve to get Alzheimer’s, it just happened. People don’t deserve to win the lottery, it’s just chance.

Entitled.  We really aren’t entitled to anything.  We often just think we should be.

The practice of banishing these words from your vocabulary is very similar to the complaining fast I invited students to go on a while ago.  Think of this as an elimination diet where you eliminate a food from your diet to see if your symptoms go away.  Try giving up one of these words for a day or a week and see if it has an impact on your life.  Just like a food, it may take longer than a day or a week to get it completely out of your system, however, so be patient and give it time.

At the end of her TED talk, Caroline Myss asks us to make this choice to be healthy.  She says, “Make the choice everyday to get up every day and bless your day.  Don’t be grateful for the things you have because these things can change.  Wake up every day and bless the fact that you are alive and things will never be exactly this way again; these people, this situation will never be exactly this way again.  Appreciate the gift of being alive.  If you can wake up this way every day, this shapes your life with grace and beauty."

What choices can you make to live a happier and more fulfilled life?

Three things to do when your yoga teacher goes on vacation

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I know students get attached to their teacher and are disappointed when there is a sub.  I'm the same way.  Especially if I travel to take a class with specific a teacher.  But if I practice being flexible (which is what we are trying to do in a yoga practice anyway - aren't we?) I find that I am usually pleasantly satisfied with what the unexpected has to offer me.  Often the struggle is just with myself.

Sometimes I won't go to a class if I know there is a sub, but if I show up for the class, I'll take it.  I think it is very rude to walk out once you are there and it is uncomfortable for the substitute teacher.  I know how I feel if someone walks out on my class.  I've watched people turn around and walk out if I ask people to grab a chair, or find a partner.  I've learned to let it roll off of me, though.  I'd rather not have the negative energy.

That's a roundabout way to say that I won't be teaching next week.  I will be spending some time away with my family.  The way I see it is you have three choices:

  1. You can show up as usual.  You have a routine and it is important to stick to it.  If you do go, leave your expectations behind and be open to a new experience;  you may be pleasantly surprised and find you get exactly what you need.  If you do go to class, here is a list of who is subbing for me.  All of these teachers are wonderful.  Take the time to appreciate their offerings.

  2. You can take the day off.  Sometimes the body needs a break in order to rest and recuperate.  Perhaps there are some things you have been procrastinating about at home.  This could be a good opportunity to get some things checked off your to-do list.

  3. Practice by yourself at home.  Have you ever tried it?  Set aside some time - try the same amount of time you would normally spend in class.  Because you don't have to drive over to the yoga studio you will need less time than you do when you go to take class.  Set out your mat, put on some music and start.  If you follow this routine, you can easily get in an hour or an hour and a half practice. Remember 80% of the work is simply showing up.

    1. 5 minutes Ujjayi breathing or Mantra practice

    2. Seated warm up stretches and/or a couple of cat/cow movements

    3. Three (at least) Sun Salutes

    4. Standing poses.  It helps to know which pose is your peak pose.  Do poses that will help you warm up for that.

    5. Standing Balancing Poses

    6. Inversions or Hand Balancings.  Things like Crow, Handstand and Headstand are perfect here.

    7. Hip Openers

    8. Backbends - prone and supine

    9. Twists

    10. Forward Bends

    11. Shoulder Stand - If you choose to do it.

    12. Meditation

    13. Savasana

Let me know how it works out, with whichever option you choose.  You can leave a comment in the section below.  I'll be back to teaching my regular schedule on Monday, July 17th.  Until then....

Pain and Yoga

Occasionally the topic of pain comes up in yoga class.  I find this distressing.  I never want students to experience pain during or after their yoga practice, but sometimes it does happen.  You can experience soreness after a good workout, but what is the difference between soreness and pain?  And how do you tell them apart.

The Role of the Breath in Yoga Class

During practice, the breath should be paramount.  Calm, steady breathing as you move through the poses is an indicator of yoga - the yoking, or union, of the body, mind and breath.  Breath that is held, ragged or worse, it sounds like a steam locomotive, is the sign of imposing your will over your body.  So, the first question to ask is: “What is your breathing like during your practice?”  If you can stay focused on your breathing and keep it calm and steady, you are less likely to hurt yourself.

The next time you are in class, pay attention to your breath.  There is a common breathing technique in yoga called Ujjayyi, which means “upwardly victorious breath”.  This is where you breathe in and out through your nose with a slight constriction in the back of the throat (the glottis). This creates a breathing sound deep in the back of your throat that some say sounds like Darth Vader.  I like to say it sounds like the ocean or the wind in the trees.  The inhalations and exhalations should be of equal length, about five seconds each.  The breathing itself should not feel strenuous: it is possible to overdo even breathing exercises!   The sensation of the breath over the duration of an inhale or and exhale should be even.

The purpose of the breath is threefold:  First, is meant to keep you present.  In order to constrict the glottis, you have to stay attentive to what you are doing.  The moment you lose the sound of the breath, your mind has drifted off into the past or the future and you are no longer paying attention to your body.  Second, it is meant to build heat in order to increase circulation and promote flexibility.  And third, it is meant to keep you safe.  Accidents happen when our attention wanders. If the attention wanders away from the breath, it is also wandering away from the body.

What are you feeling while you do your yoga practice?

I often wonder what people are feeling during class.  Sometimes, I will have the class do a pose on one side and then I will ask the question: “How does that side feel different that the other side?”  This part of the practice is meant to prime the pump of turning your attention inward to experience what you are feeling.  Although I am no longer amazed when people say they don’t feel anything, I do these inquiries to send people inside to train them to pay attention to how they feel.  Our primary way of interacting with the universe is to experience it through our body and our five senses.  If you don’t feel anything, you can’t differentiate between what is good or bad for your body.  If you don’t know how you are feeling, who does?

Sensation and pain. 

How do you differentiate between sensation and pain?  First of all, you do not want to feel pain in a joint when working into your yoga poses.  Generally speaking, you should feel stretch in the belly of a muscle, not in the attachment site, which is usually at a joint.  Pain is something that does not subside as you stay in a pose; it often intensifies.  Discomfort is something that changes as you stay in a pose.  When you release any held tension anywhere else in the body, the discomfort lessens

If you have pain in the body; let’s say you have an injury that you are trying to heal, follow this protocol:  Assign your pain a number between 1 and 10.  Let’s say it’s a 6.  As you do your practice, the number may go up to a 7, but not to an 8.  (Rehabilitating an injury can be painful.)  When you stop the pose, or exercise, you are doing, the pain should drop back down to the original number.  If it doesn’t, maybe you went too far.   But, here is the important point: If you pain does not drop back down to a 6 or lower, then you went too far.  You only know this through hindsight!  It is very important to pay attention to how you are feeling during your workout.

There is also a big difference between chronic pain and acute pain.   Acute pain is the result of an injury and needs time to heal.  Chronic pain is serving a psychological purpose.  This is the subject of a different blog post.

Recovery and Over-training

When you were twenty, you could work out every day, stay out all night and get up and do it again the next day.  As you age, that doesn’t work so well anymore.  Up until I was 50 I felt I could do almost anything I wanted to do.  After 50 the rules changed: I need to nap sometimes, I need a day off to recuperate. And, at the same time, I need to be very consistent. I work out almost every day each week. But, I don’t do the same workout every day.  Sometimes I do yoga, sometimes I lift weights, for cardio I run, swim or ride my bike.  While I need a day off from time to time, I also need to commit to working out consistently each week.

The Signs of Over-Training

How do you know you are over doing it?  Over training affects your sleep; it may cause insomnia.  It is also fine to be sore after a workout, but after a while, as your body becomes conditioned your soreness should go away.  If you are consistently sore, you may be over training.  Also, if you body and your limbs feel heavy and lethargic, that may be a sign that you are hitting it too hard.  If you are feeling these things, back off, vary your workout and maybe take a day or two off to rest and recuperate.

When I did my yoga training, we were encouraged to have one day a week set aside for a restorative practice: meditation, pranayama, supported poses or yoga nidra.  Do you have rest built into your workout schedule?

Pain and the Ego

Often students push themselves too hard because they want to be seen as more advanced.  In a public class, sometimes the ego gets in the way.  Imagine you are a newer yoga student and you come to class and set up your mat next to somebody who has been practicing yoga several times a week for years.  It would be unreasonable to expect to do what they can do.  If you were new to lifting weights and saw somebody lifting 100 lbs and tried to do that, too, you might hurt yourself.  You might want to try 5 lbs. at first and slowly work your way up from there.  The same thing with yoga; in all of my classes I offer modifications for the range of abilities and limitations.  It is up to the student to accept where they are and work with what they’ve got.  That can sometimes be hard to do.

It is also important to make sure you are in the right class.  Often people come to class because it fits their schedule, not because it is the right class for them.  How can you tell if you are in the right class?  You should be able to do about 75% of the class.  If you can do less than that, find an easier class.  If you can do 100% of the class, you might want to stay there if you are comfortable, but if you want to improve you might want to find a more challenging class.

In choosing which class you go to, I recommend you take a long and honest look at yourself.  Are you in good shape?  This means that you work out regularly and feel fit and strong.  Or are you de-conditioned?  If you are de-conditioned, you might want to start at a very gentle level and work there for a while until you feel you are up for more of a challenge.  Do you have good proprioceptive sense?  Proprioception is knowing where your body is in space and what it is doing, even without looking at it.  While this is something that yoga enhances, if you are lacking this sense a beginner class is where you start to learn it.  Are you injured or do you have any other physical limitation? If you are injured, take it easy by starting with the basics and allow yourself to heal.  If you have a physical limitation, it is still possible to do yoga, but it takes some time to learn how to modify for your specific issue.  Also, if you have to modify more than 25% of the class, you might be in the wrong class.

Remember to keep the ego in check; stay connected to your breath and take the time to feel the sensations in your body.  If you get hurt in class because you were pushing too hard, you will be the one who doesn’t show up to class the next day.  While accidents can and do happen, the sign of a more advanced practitioner is someone doesn’t hurt themselves doing yoga.

There is a story in yoga where a student asks the teacher how long it will take before they can touch the floor in a standing forward fold.  The teacher asks them to bend over and reach as low as they can with straight legs.  The teacher then puts a stack of papers on the floor tall enough that the student can just touch the top of the stack with their fingertips.  The answer is: “Practice every day and remove one sheet of paper a day.”

That is the essence of yoga.  As Patthabi Jois was famous for saying:  “Practice, practice, all is coming.”

Do you have any questions about pain and your yoga practice?  If so, leave your comments below.  While I cannot guarantee that I can answer every question, I may use your question as a future topic for a blog post.

Recommendations for Yoga Books and Mats for New Students

People are always asking me for which yoga mats they should buy and which books should they read to learn more about yoga.  Here are some recommendations to get you started:

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Books:

How Yoga Works by Geshe Michael Roche.  While this book doesn’t describe any asanas, it does touch on some frequently asked questions such as:  “How long should it take for me to be able to __________ (fill in the blank)?  What it does very nicely do is describe the inner workings of yoga and progress on the path.  The story is a bit simplistic, but sometimes I need my philosophy distilled down.  It’s an easy and enjoyable read.

The Heart of Yoga by T.K.V Desikachar.  This book provides an introduction to yoga practice with some basic asana instruction, including breathing practices.  It also introduces introductory philosophical tenets, including the entire Yoga Sutra (an important yogic text).

Light on Yoga by B.K.S. Iyengar.   This book is considered to be the bible of yoga postures. It is a reference book; something you flip through rather than read.   The first 50 or so pages describe yoga philosophy, although it is very dense and filled with a lot of Sanskrit terms that can make it difficult to comprehend by those newer to yoga.

Moving Toward Balance: 8 Weeks of Yoga with Rodney Yee, by Rodney Yee.  This book  has pictures of poses with modifications to make them more accessible and it gives examples of sequences to create a sustainable home practice.

As a side note, if you are ever interested in deepening your personal yoga practice, these books are part of the required reading of my course: “The Foundations of Yoga”.   While this course is part of my Yoga Teacher Training Program, it is not just for teachers.  It meant for the serious student who wants to learn more about than you can get in a public class.

Yoga Mats

Jade:  The complaint that most students have about yoga mats is that they slide on them.  You will not slide on this mat.  These mats are very sticky.  Jade proudly claims that these mats are made of natural materials: rubber.  But that means if you have a latex sensitivity, you may find these mats irritating to your skin.   This also makes them photosensitive.  If they are exposed to the light, the outer surface becomes crusty.  You still won’t slide on the mat, but the mat can slide on the floor.  These mats should be kept in a yoga bag when not in use.

Lululemon makes a nice mat.  You can pick one up in a store, or buy them online.  I have never owned one, but I have tried them.  I think they are good mats.

I also like Manduka.  If you go to their site, you can take their quiz and they will help you pick a mat.  My dog chewed my Manduka mat :(

If patterns are your thing, try out Gaiam.  They have a great selection and people like their mats. I have never tried one. 

In general, buy a regular sized mat which measures  24” x 68”.  Longer mats are for people over 6’ tall.  Wider mats aren’t necessary and are heavier to carry around (and may be too big for a standard mat bag).  A standard mat is about 5mm or 3/16” thick.  If you want extra cushion you can buy a thicker mat, but they are heavier and bulkier.

Expect to pay anywhere from $60 to $120 for one of these name brand mats.  They are excellent fitness equipment and worth the price.  However, it is possible to buy inexpensive mats at places like: Whole Foods, Target, and Home Goods, even The Dollar Store sells cheap mats.  But be careful, some of those mats are cheaper because they are shorter, narrower and thinner than brand name mats.  I have had cheap mats that have worked as well as the more expensive mats. I started buying cheap mats after my dog chewed my most expensive mat.   If you find that you don’t like a mat you purchased, you can always use it as a pad under an area rug, let the dog have it, or, I use my old mats in the back of my car.  It is easier to shake out the mat when it gets dirty than it is to vacuum the rug.

(I do not get any compensation from any company for recommending yoga mats.) 

What's your favorite mat?  I know there are a lot of other brands out there.  What have I missed Share your opinions in the comments below.

Happy Memorial Day!

It seems an oxymoron to wish someone a "Happy Memorial Day" if you know the true meaning of the holiday.  To most of us it is the unofficial start of summer.  It's when swimming pools open and we fire up the backyard barbecues.  While I hope you do enjoy this holiday weekend, I invite you to remember why we have this holiday: to remember those who have died in wars for our country.

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Here's the background and history of Memorial Day:

Now observed on the last Monday of May, Memorial Day was originally known as Decoration Day and dates back to the years following the Civil War. At the time, groups would decorate the graves of Confederate and Union soldiers, a practice still acknowledged with people often visiting cemeteries to decorate veteran graves.

While the tradition existed throughout the U.S., in 1966 the federal government declared Waterloo, New York - which had commemorated the day since May 5, 1866 - the official birthplace of Memorial Day. In 1868, May 30 was set aside as a nationwide Decoration Day, with the date selected because it didn't correspond to the anniversary of any particular battle.

After World War I, the day became known to honor veterans of both the Civil War and the more recent conflict. It remained on May 30 until 1968, when Congress passed the Uniform Monday Holiday Act, which established Memorial Day as the last Monday in May to create a three-day holiday for federal employees. The change went into effect in 1971, the same day Memorial Day was designated a federal holiday.

Namaste,

Karin